Are you nothing???????????

Oh God I am still crazy about it..... Ok lemme tell you something - there was this gal who was deeply in love with this guy, the guy was a 'wanna be' kind, with attitude as big as the world and really unromantic. He never say he loves her or care about her. Now this gal could not let go of him at all, she told me she wanted to but she can't - SHE WAS HOOKED. Everytime they fight, the gal have to apologise, though its not her fault at all, now she wanted to let go too but she is scared. Scared, it makes her unsecure in the world she lives in, feeling unwanted, hurt even the thpught of letting him go. The guy will told her to get lost, find another guy.... but she can't, can't even think of another guy.
Now do you think this is LOVE? If it is love - why? Can it be just one sided?

Now lets look really deep into this kind of relationship - who's fault is it? What will you do if you are in this kind of situation? For me, moments like this are valuable, I will not trade it with anything in the world. But if a guy treats me this way, it think twice, thrice, give him a chance to realise what he will let go and when my patience runs out and he cannot see what he is ignoring then HE DOES NOT DESERVE MY LOVE, thats what I will tell him, straight in the face. You do not come across people that hook you like this no matter who/what they are thats why I told her to keep him as long as her patience can endure and then let go so that she won't regret later.

As the saying goes:
Tis better to have love
And lost
Then never to have love
At all.
Because without love, what are we? Even the Bible says that even if a person have faith to move mountains but no love, s/he is nothing. So without love we are nothing and I don't wanna be nothing.